Life! : A short word with four letters, but a huge journey. It’s like a roller coaster. You meet so many people. Where some become temporary in your life and a few of them become permanent. Others just come into your life to teach you a lesson.
Now all of you might be wondering what the article is really about. Let me tell you, it’s true that you meet so many people in your life. But why? and how can you judge whos the right person and who isn’t?
Simple words about life
Let me sum up your life in a few words. You’re excited to meet new people and make new friends. Have a huge friend circle. But what if these people aren’t loyal to you?. What if they are just using you for their own self?. What would be the point to surround yourself with so many people if they’re not worth it?. I know it’s nice to be around lots of people. Seeking attention feels nice at times when you’re unstable.
But you know when you become stable in life. And when you see life in a positive way. That’s when you understand that not everyone you meet is your friend. People come and go in life. Just remember every person comes into your life to teach you a lesson. It’s not like everyone goes from your life. A few loyal and special people stay. The ones who genuinely care and love you. The ones who want you to grow and change into a better person. Those people stay.
But the question is, How do you know who would stay and who wouldn’t?. People struggle to find the right people in this evil world. It’s not like I haven’t struggled to find the right people. Everyone goes through a phase where there not sure who will stay and who wouldn’t. At times you get attached emotionally and physically with the wrong person. Still, I don’t think that’s a wrong thing.
I’m a person who gets attached to people easily. Yet it took me time to identify the right people to get attached to. You met around 10 people every day. And out of those 10 people you interact with almost 7 of them intentionally. But you know how you could know who the right person is. You simply have to keep your observation skills strong.
At times you know how the other person is, you’re sure that they won’t be good for you. They won’t let you grow in life. They will be a negative aspect of your life. Still, you let them come into your life. And not only this, you keep them at a priority. You get mentally and physically attached to that person. You wait for their texts msgs, you wait for them to talk to you. Until they don’t talk, you stay upset. That’s when you get dependent on that person. But you know in between all this what has happened?.
You have lost your value. Now you don’t matter to that person anymore. Because the person who is genuinely your friend. Won’t just leave you like this. They’ll keep you motivated and strong. They won’t let you become dependent on them. They would stay beside you and help you become an independent person. You will be internally happy. And satisfied with your life. That’s when you will be sure that you’re with the right people.
I hope you would have understood that life isn’t about meeting people and keeping them with you forever. Firstly you cant force a person to stay with you forever. Secondly, always remember that people come in your life to teach you a lesson. And that lesson will stay with you forever. Thirdly, try to judge the person before trusting them so easily. Because not everyone is worth keeping in your life.