Are you still living in your past?

Focus on you’re present instead of your past!

Making mistakes is just a part of life. It’s not possible that one does not make mistakes; everyone in their life does make mistakes. And that’s just one way you may learn about life. Life isn’t as simple as people say. People learn everything with time. 

Everyone faces ups and downs in some parts of their life. But what matters is how well you can handle everything. Some hide from problems and others face them. It all depends on how strong the person is internally. But after all this still the question is

Why you cant live in the past?

I admit that people change with time, but what changes them is how much they learn from there past mistakes. You cant always live in the past. You need to move forward in life. 

Everyone has a past, some remember the bad moments. Others keep themselves isolated and depressed and others remember the good ones and stay happy. 

On the other hand for sure everyone has a certain memory in there past. That they try to hide from others because they have a fear of how the society will treat them. People treat you for your past without realizing how much you have changed since then.

One lesson I have learnt about life is that, Life is about moving on and forgetting the past, learning from the past and growing into a better person. But why can’t the society understand that. The person you were and now what you have become are certainly two different people. Because facing different obstacles in life you change into a different person depending on how strong you are internally.


People regret things they do in the past and those regrets influence them in a bad way, they become depressed. But regretting over something that is done is just acting immature and childish. Because what is done is done. You can’t change your past but what you could do is to accept your past and move on from it.

I agree people judge you over your past. Over the mistakes you might have done in the past. But that were just a part of your past and that can’t be changed no matter whatever you do. In throughout I can say that you can’t change what others may think about you even.

How to live in your past is one of the most difficult questions to answer. Because everyone has their own perspective and truly everyone isn’t as acceptive to a change.

But I think having a past isn’t that bad as it seems. But with time you become stronger than you were before. You change and become acceptive. You realize that you can’t change the past. What you could do is accept it and be happy, because a past helped you learn a better lesson.

Everyone has a certain dark side about their past that they try to hide from everyone. I can say that even I have a past that I myself try to hide. So that people don’t judge me. So that people don’t think I’ll always do the same mistakes that I have done.

But still the time comes when people still look at you as you were in your past. They consider that you would always make the same mistakes as you have done in the past. 

But trust me what is done is done. Your past will always haunt you and no matter whatever you do. You just can’t remove it from your life instead you could try to become acceptive and strong.  

And especially instead of living in the past, try to learn from your past. And learn in such a manner that you grow into a better person. Into a motivated person who can help others to move.

Conclusion

After all this, I can say that having a past is okay. Don’t be ashamed of for all the mistakes you might have done in the past. Because those mistakes have now taught you a better lesson.

You might not share your past with anyone. But certainly everyone has at least one person in their life, and in my opinion, you should share it with that one person, to feel relaxed and calm. And you never know that one person might be the reason you are moving on.

Living with the past is one way you may realize how strong you have become with time. How much you have learnt throughout your life.

How friendship is important in today’s world?

Real meaning of Friendship

Friendship is a mutual relationship between two people. It is not necessary to be between the same genders. Friendship is of the most important relations. As stated in most sayings “having a friend is a blessing in disguise.” The difficult thing nowadays is to understand whether the friendships are real or not. The friendship bond is made by trust, sincerity, and compromises.

I consider that without a proper understanding between both people a friendship cant be successful. Nowadays, it is tough to identify nature of people. We can’t know whether the person is loyal or not. They think as friendship as a good way to time pass.  This world is full of fake people. Honestly it is quite rare that you would find someone who fulfills all aspects of a true friendship. 

Importance of friendship:

I believe having a lot of friends isn’t bad. Having less friends but loyal ones are better. Your surrounding actually defines who you are. You become like the people your surrounded by, for example a girl having friends that take drugs. Of course you would start doing the same. People are very insecure. To make their place in a group of people they do as they do. Thus a girl seeing her friends have drugs will do the same. Just so she can make her position in the group. Its not necessary to have a lot of friends, even one is enough. If that one is loyal, trustworthy and understanding that’s more than enough.

I have faced a lot, trying to find real friends. Yet I do make a lot of friends because I believe in having a lot of people around me. People become selfish and use you for their own benefits. I noticed that people just made friends to score better grades. But at times you can’t understand someone’s intentions.

Conclusion:

Friendship is a beautiful relation if you know its true meaning, in my opinion a friendship can only work better if you’re willing to be a supportive system for your friend. If your able to act true and loyal with them, and act trustworthy enough. In all types of relationships there exists fights and even in friendships they do too but ending a friendship over pathetic fights is being immature, instead you should clear out all the misunderstandings.

The difference between educated and uneducated societies.

An educated person is the only one who can survive in this society. Being a part of this society, we should notice that not everyone in our society could afford to get an education. Thus this is one reason why our society is divided into two parts, the educated society and the uneducated one. Both of these have their own advantages and disadvantages that can be evaluated according to social, power, and economic and mental status.

When we consider both societies, the first thing that comes into our mind is the income level. There is no doubt that educated people have more opportunities than uneducated people due to their certificates of achievements. They get more job chances and have a better life.

On the other hand, the uneducated people who haven’t had a chance to complete their education. They do not get many chances of a good job. And for this reason, they have to work for a small labor position. The small labor positions lead to poor health due to all the hard work they have to do. Unlike educated people, uneducated people have been pushed deep into poverty.

The level of income leads us to social status. Educated people with a high level of income seem to be a respectable figure for other people whereas uneducated people are viewed in a different way. Uneducated people do not choose to face poverty but due to not getting the education they do not have the same chances in life. Another reason why educated people have a greater status in society is because of the way they act and communicate with people.

The last aspect is the mentality. Educated people tend to be open-minded whereas uneducated people are narrow-minded. This is generally true, educated people do have an advantage of more knowledge about the world. They can easily read newspapers, books, and whatever they like to gain knowledge. Similarly, uneducated people only know what they are able to observe from their surroundings.

How education is important by history perspective

History shows that those nations who have focused on educating themselves have always succeeded in achieving their aims. Educating oneself is somehow a natural and voluntary process.

Those nations who are not able to change with the changing trends in the international environment can’t sustain in the global environment. The only key factor that can cause change tolerance and adaption in the nations is Education. With education, nations can become able to cope with the changing trends.

Example of the importance of education

In short, let’s take an example to prove that the process of education is an ever-going process. Fights were fought with spears and arrows those having more education about the war had an edge over their opponents. The same is the case with today’s wars. This concludes that education is an important aspect to survive in this society. And the one who is educated will always be successful.

Conclusion

As a result, I realize that not everyone in our society is able to gain a proper education. Instead, the young children of a poor family are forced to work. They are forced to beg on the streets. They are forced to work in factories. All this hard labor leads to poor health for them. Why not change things around your society. Try to pay for a poor child’s education. So when the child grows up he/she would do the same. This process would continue. And you would see in a short time how our society would become an educated one.

How your surrounding and company influences you?

How surrouding affects you?

Being around negative people destroys almost everything. You think and behave the way others around you do. If they force you to do something wrong, you for sure would do it. You consider that what you’re surrounding does it right, you think you on the right track when you are with them. Since the earliest times.

On the other hand, humans have always needed a surrounding to survive. They consider that the surrounding may provide them safety and security. This is why people don’t even realize what kind of people they surround themselves with. These negative people around you can affect your education even. They might degrade your surroundings you don’t perform well. They might try to use your knowledge to score better. And for sure they would!

How self confidence can help you?

In short, negative people can kill you internally and externally as well.  Both cases can worsen depending on the person. Self-confidence is most important in such circumstance.

Furthermore, if you have self-confidence, you would know what is right and what is wrong. You would understand how to tackle with these negative people. Indeed a negative surrounding may affect your mood and attitude towards things. You may want to do something good, but to maintain your position in between these people you tend to do as they want.

This is where you’re wrong!

This is where you need to think differently, it is necessary to be around positive people. Or else you would always stay unstable. You would always try to please them, and in between this time period, you will destroy your inner self. You will forget your own value, your own worth. To become a successful person, one must understand its worth. And for this, he/she must be around positive people

When you’re around positive people, you would see how differently you think about things. You would want to be productive, you would want to learn, grow and evolve into a different person. So in such cases it best that you’re around people who are loyal to you, who make you realize your real worth. And who support you and try to make you become a better person.